If our near and dear ones (father & mother in law who already have enough of regular monthly income) want our money too.. Should we give?? The base line is: I want to conserve my hard earned money for future needs and they want to spend (take) it today!! I want to lead a simple but good life!! They want to have lavish life style with luxuries! I don’t want them to be unhappy and I don’t want myself to be unhappy too!